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100 New Sex Ideas for Experienced Lovers

Long-term relationships thrive on novelty.

Shannon Burton, SXI (they/she)
4 min readMar 15, 2023

There’s something I’ve noticed about people in long-lasting relationships: most are willing to try just about anything once.

Seeking new experiences together is one of the top ways partners maintain connection and excitement. Research supports this practice, as novelty has been proven to release dopamine and activate the pleasure centers of the brain.

Seeking new sexual experiences, of course, is an especially pleasurable way to connect.

Sexual Novelty in Today’s World

For some, it’s hard to imagine anything qualifying as sexually novel these days. After all:

  • Yes-No-Maybe lists are easy to find, effectively acting as ‘to-try’ lists for adventurous partners.
  • Online shopping makes it possible to discretely ship an endless variety of fun devices right to your home.
  • Brick-and-mortar stores have come a long way from their seedy past; adult boutiques with friendly and knowledgeable staff can be found in most major cities.
  • Porn and erotica are widely available at no cost, providing plenty of inspiration.
  • Sex classes, both virtual and in-person, offer detailed…

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Shannon Burton, SXI (they/she)
Shannon Burton, SXI (they/she)

Written by Shannon Burton, SXI (they/she)

Sexual Empowerment Coach for Women+🌈 Explore, embrace, and expand your sexuality with virtual, talk-based coaching. Find resources at sexcoachshannon.com

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