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8 Ways Masturbating Improves Your Sex Life

How solo sex makes you a better lover.

Shannon Burton, SXI (they/she)
8 min readNov 11, 2021
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Practice makes perfect, so the saying goes. For many of us, practicing giving and receiving pleasure on our own has multiple long-term benefits for both ourselves and our partners.

Not to mention being a lot of fun, of course.

Masturbation brings up complicated or confusing feelings for some. It can be hard to shake shame around sex when we live in a sex-negative society.

However, the truth is masturbation is a completely normal and healthy activity with many upsides for lovers of all gender identities and bodies. It’s also the safest form of sex in many ways.

Masturbation isn’t just natural and safe — it also has many benefits.

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Due to cultural, spiritual, and/or religious beliefs, many people struggle with…

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Shannon Burton, SXI (they/she)
Shannon Burton, SXI (they/she)

Written by Shannon Burton, SXI (they/she)

Sexual Empowerment Coach for Women+🌈 Explore, embrace, and expand your sexuality with virtual, talk-based coaching. Find resources at sexcoachshannon.com

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