How to Come Up With New Ideas for the Bedroom

Your relationship is one-of-a-kind; your sex should be, too.

Shannon Burton, SXI (they/she)
5 min readNov 6, 2023

You and your partner know each other’s bodies inside and out: every contour and curve, every turn-on and pleasure point.

You’ve also explored every one of the new sexy ideas you’ve encountered over the years.

Your sex life is great, and you want to keep it fresh and exciting. The key is tapping into inspiration that’s as unique as your relationship.

When dreaming up new ideas to spice up your sex life, a little guided brainstorming goes a long way.

Here are some strategies you can use to generate enticing ideas tailored to you and your partner’s deepest fantasies.

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Shannon Burton, SXI (they/she)

Sexual Empowerment Coach for Women+🌈 Explore, embrace, and expand your sexuality with virtual, talk-based coaching. Find resources at