How to Squirt: 4-Steps to Female Ejaculation
Want squirting orgasms for you or your partner? Here’s how to do it.
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When it comes to coming as a vulva owner, people have a lot of questions. This is even more true when trying to learn how to squirt.
In today’s post, I’ll answer common questions about female ejaculation and squirting orgasm. Then, I’ll share a simple step-by-step guide for getting yourself (or your partner) squirting.
Let’s start with some basics.
What is an orgasm?
Before we get into squirting orgasms, we should talk about what orgasm is.
orgasm: the rapid pleasurable release of neuromuscular tensions at the height of sexual arousal that is usually accompanied by the ejaculation of semen in the male and by vaginal contractions in the female
When we talk about female orgasm, we’re usually referring to this release of sexual tension and vaginal contractions.
You’ll notice that there’s no mention of squirting or female ejaculation in this definition. This brings us to our next question.
Is squirting an orgasm?
Not every female orgasm involves squirting, and not every instance of female ejaculation is an orgasm.
This often comes as a shock to my students and clients. Surely, squirting is a signal of intense sexual release, and therefore an orgasm, right!?
While releasing fluids during sex is a type of release, many women squirt without experiencing the vaginal contractions and pleasure associated with orgasm.
In the intensity of sexual experience, our bodies can do all kinds of interesting things. One of those things is releasing…