Penetrative Orgasm

Quick and Dirty Self-Training for Vagina-Owners

Shannon Burton, SXI (they/she)
3 min readOct 1, 2024

A while back I wrote a guide for vagina-owners interested in learning how to experience penetrative orgasm.

The method I describe in that post is still the one I most recommend. It usually takes a couple weeks, but it’s a pleasant journey with a lot of opportunity to learn about yourself and your body.

The journey in this post is not that.

The journey below is quick, dirty, and likely to result in a few failed orgasms.

But…

If you reliably orgasm and don’t mind risking a few to fast-track your penetrative training, read on.

Work it up, put it in

I find this method works best with a vibrating dildo (assuming you’re able to orgasm by pressing a vibrating dildo against your external clit).

If you prefer your hand or a different type of toy on your clit, you can adapt this method using that and having a separate dildo ready to use at the right time.

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Shannon Burton, SXI (they/she)

Sexual Empowerment Coach for Women+🌈 Explore, embrace, and expand your sexuality with virtual, talk-based coaching. Find resources at sexcoachshannon.com