Scheduling Sex Is Hot…Here’s How to Do It Right

Planned romps don’t have to feel routine.

Shannon Burton, SXI (they/she)
5 min readOct 31, 2023

Listen, I get it. Scheduling sex just doesn’t sound sexy.

The idea of “penciling it in” among work, errands, and other obligations can make even the most sex-positive people wince.

Yet, scheduled sex is probably more common than you think.

For example, perhaps you have…

  • anticipated sex when reuniting with a partner after spending time apart
  • looked forward to sex during weekends, holidays from work, or vacations
  • enjoyed sex at the end of regularly scheduled dates, like weekly dinners or nights out
  • organically built a routine of morning, afternoon, or evening sex based on which was most convenient

All of these are examples of scheduled sex. And there’s no reason why they can’t include hot, steamy, brag-worthy romps.

In today’s post, I’m talking about the benefits of scheduling sex and 3 steps to make it work for you.

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Shannon Burton, SXI (they/she)
Shannon Burton, SXI (they/she)

Written by Shannon Burton, SXI (they/she)

Sexual Empowerment Coach for Women+🌈 Explore, embrace, and expand your sexuality with virtual, talk-based coaching. Find resources at sexcoachshannon.com

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