Sex Positivity Self-Assessment

How sex positive are you, really? 80 questions to help you figure it out.

Content warning: This article includes questions about your views on bodies, reproduction, sexual orientation, gender identity, and sexual preferences, as well as references to non-consensual sexual experiences. Please exercise self-care and take breaks or skip sections as needed.

Wondering where you land on the scale of ‘puritan’ to ‘hedonist’? Trying to be a more sex-positive person, or feeling like you’re already the champion of sex positivity?

This questionnaire is for you!

I got this idea after my talk on Becoming More Sex Positive (video above) and I just had to run with it. These questions are open-ended and are not meant to ‘score’ you or anyone’s level of sex positivity. This isn’t a contest.

Rather, think of these as journal prompts or conversation starters. Reflect on your responses, share them with friends, and decide for yourself where your areas of strength vs. improvement lie.