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The Underappreciated Versatility of Strap-On Sex

Why everyone can (and should) try strapping on at least once.

Shannon Burton, SXI (they/she)
6 min readFeb 3, 2022

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It’s easy to think that strap-ons are only for lesbians and pegging. If that’s all that comes to mind when you hear about strap-on sex, though, buckle up. You’re in for a ride.

First, let’s go over some basics.

A Brief Overview of Strap-On Sex

Strap-on sex involves affixing a dildo to oneself, usually with the help of a harness, to use during sexual activity. Strap-on sex does not require penetration, but many people do use the dildo for vaginal, anal, and oral sex.

Strap-on sex has likely been around for thousands of years, as evidenced by the existence of early dildos with drilled holes or attached rings. These holes and rings are theorized to have been used for tying the dildos onto a person’s body with string, straps, or other materials.

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Shannon Burton, SXI (they/she)
Shannon Burton, SXI (they/she)

Written by Shannon Burton, SXI (they/she)

Sexual Empowerment Coach for Women+🌈 Explore, embrace, and expand your sexuality with virtual, talk-based coaching. Find resources at sexcoachshannon.com

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