How to come more easily, frequently, and powerfully.

An orgasmic cheat sheet.

Shannon Burton, SXI (they/she)
9 min readJan 26, 2023

There are many reasons someone may click on an article like this.

Some may have a sort of detached curiosity. Unconcerned about their orgasms, they perhaps enjoy reading about the topic or appreciate additional perspectives.

Others can’t help but be drawn to the word ‘powerfully’. More powerful orgasms? Who wouldn’t want that?

And we’ll get there, I promise. But first, I want to go over some things for people who want to orgasm more easily or frequently.

Many people struggle to orgasm as reliably as they’d like. Some hardly orgasm at all. Anorgasmia, a condition where orgasm is rare or completely absent, affects between 11% and 41% of women and 8% of men.

So I’m going to start with the basics, and we’ll work our way up from there. This article is a cheat sheet for my Unlocking Orgasm Mini-Course. It’s one blog post covering four days of learning: you’re welcome!

(I highly recommend checking the course out, by the way. It comes with a really helpful activity ebook and a recorded guided audio session.)

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Shannon Burton, SXI (they/she)

Sexual Empowerment Coach for Women+🌈 Explore, embrace, and expand your sexuality with virtual, talk-based coaching. Find resources at sexcoachshannon.com